Psyching Life

Conversation Starters

Questions that make it easier to ask, listen, and actually hear each other. One card in the car or at dinner is enough.

Who's asking?

How to play

  1. 1One card, one conversation. Don't rush to the next. Let it go where it goes.
  2. 2Ask, then listen. Don't fix, don't lecture. Just try to understand.
  3. 3Anyone can pass. Swipe left, no explanation needed.

Use while parked, or let a passenger handle the cards. Drivers keep their attention on the road.

If something serious comes up, stay calm, thank them for telling you, and get support.

Read Car Talk · Printable cards · Quick list

Tip: add this to your home screen and it works like an app, even offline.

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Swipe right for next · swipe left to pass ·

That's the deck.

You went through every card. Most good conversations only need one.

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